For women who want to show “that person” how attractive you really are with your legs during a date.
Leg manners are looked at by people around you more than you think. Bad legs manners may ruin your date instantly, making it something that you should be careful of.
This article introduces well-mannered ways to make your legs look attractive, and even train them at the same time.
Three well-mannered ways to make your legs look attractive during a date
１．Always tighten your inner thighs during a date
２．How to elegantly sit on a sofa while training your muscles
３．When to and when not to cross your legs
Always tighten your inner thighs during a date
A date with your partner, lover, or someone you want to make your lover, e.t.c.. Although there are many types of dates, a women always wants to make effort to look attractive no matter what kind of date it is. As most women emphasize on perfecting their hair, makeup, clothes, and shoes to look sexy and attractive, most forget about their leg manners, which is actually something that men are really keen about.
Not having good leg manners when you sit down can be especially give a bad impression, which may even ruin a perfect date. Leg manners are more crucial than you think.
The first thing you have to be careful is the most basic; Don’t open your legs when you sit down. Like the photo on the top of this page, sitting down with your legs open will make you look terrible, no mater how good everything else looks.
If you sit down next to a table thinking that no one will see your opened legs under it, your partner may see them when bending down to get something. Opening your legs on a train may make the glass windows in front of you reflect things that you never wanted them to reflect. Since you made the effort to look perfect, you shouldn’t ruin it all with loose legs.
A cause of your legs opening up unconsciously is the lack of muscle. The weakening of your adduct muscles (muscles locate on the inner side of your thighs) makes the outer muscles pull your legs outward, resulting in your legs opening up.
Although we all tend to want to sit down in a relaxed position, adduct muscles are necessary for good looking legs. Making effort to sit down while putting your thighs together will help you train them, resulting in even more beautiful legs.
Show your partner your beautiful and well-mannered legs while training them to look even better, at the same time.
How to elegantly sit on a sofa while training your muscles
Have you ever seen picture of a woman of the imperial family or royal family elegantly sit on a sofa with their legs slanted diagonally?
Sitting on a sofa without leaning on the backrest, with a straight back, sitting on the edge, and with your legs aligned, slanted a little to the right or left looks very elegant and beautiful, but requires a lot of muscle and patience. Keeping an elegant posture while sitting near the edge of the sofa requires muscle, and sitting their for a while requires patience. But if you do it well enough, you will look more beautiful than ever.
If you happen to have the chance to sit on a sofa on a date, try to make effort to sit shallow on the sofa, instead of relaxing and sitting deeply to rest your back.
Be careful not to sit too much on the edge, since it may hurt your waist. Sit fairly shallow, where you can naturally create a nice posture.
After you sit down, slant your legs slightly to the left or right, and bend your knees 90 degrees. Bending them too much makes it difficult to keep your posture, so be careful.
Emphasizing on this posture at all times, even when your not dating someone, will make you naturally be able to elegantly show your legs, and train them at the same time. We hope you try it out.
If it is difficult to slant your legs, just aligning them will still make them look beautiful. It even may be better to not align them if you’re wearing casual clothes.
When to and when not to cross your legs
Crossing your legs make them look thin and beautiful, and gives an impression of an “adult woman”. But crossing legs during formal or business occasions in Japan is thought to be inappropriate. Even overseas where crossing legs is not as much a taboo, there are times where you shouldn’t do it.
Crossing legs is an attractive way to show your legs, but it is important when and when not to cross them.
There are many ways to cross legs, each giving a different impression. Here are some common examples.
ⅰ．Slowly cross them: Shows the person looking that you are not nervous, and that your are relaxed with who you’re with.
ⅱ．Cross your legs, and then lean your back: This will surely make everyone think you have a bossy attitude.
ⅲ．Cross your legs the opposite way that your partner is, and lean your body towards your partner: Makes you look like your interested in your partner, and you want to be with him or her.
ⅳ．Cross your legs and face your feet downward: It might make others think you’re aggressive.
The way you cross your legs and your posture while doing it will give others all kinds of different impressions. (Impressions may differ according to the person, take these examples as just common ones.)
Although it is not necessary to try to make a posture that your ‘e not used to, it may be fun to try to tell others what your’e thinking about just by crossing your legs a certain way.
Being able to adjust how you sit down depending on the situation may also be important. Showing that your an attractive adult woman when you’re in a casual situation by crossing your legs, and switching to just naturally aligning your legs during a formal situation will assure your partner that he or she will not be embarrassed by your manners.
※ Be careful not to cross your legs in the same position for a long time, since it will affect your bone structure.
Leg posture may seem to not be noticeable compared to your hands or face, but it actually is something that many people notice easily.
I myself have been said that my walking posture does not look good since I was a child, and it still hasn’t really improved over the years.
Therefore, I feel admire beautiful leg posture every time I see someone with it. People with beautiful leg posture also seem to look elegant above the legs.
Although it is very difficult and tiring to stay elegant at all times, these tips will not only make you have good leg manners, but will also train your leg muscles to make them look even more beautiful.
１．it down without opening your legs
２．Train your abs while sitting on a sofa
３．Be careful when to cross your legs
We hope you enjoyed “Three well-mannered ways to make your legs look attractive during a date”.
Thank you for reading.